Learn My #1 “Secret Sauce” For Making Unstoppable Things Happen – And the 1 Simple Question That Can Turn Any Challenge On It’s Head.
Time to focus on your dreams, and set an exciting new vision for your future.
And while I think goal-setting is GREAT, there can be a massive downfall to goals too – if you’re not careful.
Focusing too much on the WRONG things completely wreck your ability to ever get where you want to go.
Today I’m going to show you you:
- The #1 goal to have – for the REST of your life
- The magic question to transform any challenge – on the spot
- How to use these 2 tools to DRAMATICALLY build your business
So let’s dive right in . . .
The PROBLEM with focusing on goals like:
• Making more money
• Getting more clients
• Driving a new car
• Losing 25lbs
• Taking a dream vacation
. . . is that most women think that these things will make their lives easier. Happier. Mo’ better.
They focus on attaining the object. Achieving a goal. Conquering that symbolic mountaintop!
They live entirely for “One Day” – that magical far off land where dreams become reality, and they live happily ever after.
And that is an absolutely suck-o way to live (and the reason why most people NEVER get the life they want).
Here’s the no-B.S. truth:
There has never been, nor will there EVER be, a finish line. An end-point. A high spot atop Satisfaction Mountain – a moment when you know you’ve arrived, and can plant your Unstoppable flag deep in the ground.
There’s nothing to “do” and nothing to “achieve” that will finally allow you to claim your Unstoppability.
That kind of thinking is completely back-assward.
I know that can be hard to hear. (Especially since the entire planet is doing things differently.)
But life’s goal was NEVER about getting the job, the client, the money or the car.
It was always, and will always be: FEELING GOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because “FEELING GOOD” indicates: An alignment with your Soul nature. It’s when you are connected to God. Tuned to the Universe. At one with the Cosmos.
And the better you feel, the more awesomeness you attract!
The more you prioritize feeling good – without having the dream lover, dream vacation or dream house yet – the more the lover, vacation and house appear.
Then your dreams become rich, creamy icing on an already delicious cake.
LISTEN UP, LADIES: You never want your happiness linked to something outside yourself.
If you’re happy BECAUSE of something (or someone), you’re royally screwed.
That means you’re basically an emotional puppet – able to be yanked around endlessly by the entire world around you. Requiring you to control the entire population of the planet to acquire any semblance of sanity.
And that’s a hopeless, powerless, dreadful way to live.
So . . .
• don’t like the amount of money in your bank account?
• don’t like the number of clients you have?
• don’t like that a prospect didn’t sign up for your program?
You’re Screwed. Screwed. DOUBLE-SCREWED.
No, it’s not wrong to want “things” – in fact, quite the contrary! You actually NEED these desires in order to thrive in this world –– because the act of focusing upon these dreams is what allows Source to pour through you with unstoppable abandon!
Goals and desires are vital. Necessary. And POWERFUL.
The problem happens when you start to focus on the LACK of these “things” in your life (especially when you feel like they just aren’t showing up quick enough, gosh darn it).
The minute you put your attention on “what is” (ie. Reality) you start attracting more of THAT.
‘Cause what you think about, you bring about.
So when you’re noticing what you DON’T want (and bumming yourself out), ask yourself this magic question:
“WHAT IS IT THAT I DO WANT?”
It will instantly pull your brain out of the emotional toilet, and point your mojo toward the land of Long-Lost Dreams.
Sink into it. Feel it. Imagine it. Savor it. Melt down deeper and deeper and deeper into a bold-n-brilliant daydream of it.
And the more you catch your stinkin’ thinkin’, the easier it gets to stay positive. (Positive thoughts attract MORE positive thoughts… like a round, rolling snowball of bliss.)
So let me take a moment to be doubly clear:
— I didn’t land my TV show and THEN feel “good enough” about myself. I felt “good enough” first, and THEN the TV show landed in my lap.
— I didn’t find my amazing partner Ian, and THEN feel wonderful. I felt wonderful first, and THEN I met him.
— I didn’t make over 6-figures, and THEN feel abundant. I felt abundant first, and THEN the money came.
— I didn’t get booked solid with my career, and THEN feel confident. I felt confident first, and THEN the clients came.
So set your priorities on feeling good – NO MATTER your current circumstances. And keep looking toward what you WANT, even if the world around you smells like a big pile o’ doo.
Practice makes perfect: like any great talent, you’re going to have to practice DAILY to get good at feeling Unstoppable!
So make a commitment today to put “feeling good” above all else. If you do, you’ll unravel decades of limitations within the next 30 days.
(It’s true.)
• It’s how I attracted 6 clients in 1 single week.
• It’s how I landed a TV show out of thin air.
• It’s how I manifested my sweetie. My kitties. My income. My home.
I got myself feeling utterly unstoppable FIRST – and the details fell into place. Like icing on my cake. Like sprinkles on my sundae.
But you’ve got to start somewhere. You’ve got to practice your buns off. And you’ve most definitely got to keep your eyes on the Positivity-Prize.
The sooner you do, the sooner those dreamy details will start to appear.
It’s the MOST important thing you can do to build that unstoppable 6-figure career that lies right around the corner . . .
© 2012 Stephanie McWilliams LLC
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