Deciding.
It’s the first, and most important step toward getting anything you want.
Deciding is like setting your GPS to a specific location and hitting the “GO!” button. If you don’t ever commit 1000% to something and truly DECIDE to achieve a dream, you simply spend your life driving in endless, loopy circles.
Unfortunately, while most women THINK they’re setting goals that moving their lives forward, they’re usually “recycling” instead – scanning their past experiences and results to determine their future go-get-um plans.
And that’s no different than sliding a big giant slop bucket across the surface of days gone by, and splashing it onto the road before of you. All you’re REALLY doing is wading through a cesspool of your past. Grose, but true.
The reason why people use their limited head vs. their limitless heart to set their internal G.P.S. (Great Possibilities System) is because they’re all tangled up in 2 dangerous dilemmas:
• HOW a dream should happen.
• WHEN a dream should happen.
1. HOW:
Once you decide and fully commit to a goal, the key to BIG results is to have 0 clue HOW you’re doing to do it.
Sounds backwards, right?
(But it’s not.)
You have to learn to trust that the desires within you are put there for a reason – vs. a sick practical joke to torture you.
The more you learn to set your inner GPS and trust that Source knows what it’s doing, the better off you’ll be.
Your job is just to simply LISTEN to that inner calling, and follow it’s directions. Period.
If you try to figure out exactly how something will happen, you’re merely recycling those old limited beliefs (the ones that didn’t get you where you wanted to go in the first place).
Bad idea.
I hear wild stories every day from women who’ve been brave enough to take this leap of faith: they listened to their gut, were bold enough to set their GPS for this unknown territory. And they stayed focused on the destination, 24-7.
Without fail, things start aligning. Coming together. Popping out of nowhere. And poof! Their crazy dreams become real-life reality. Sweeeeeeet.
2.WHEN:
Another sneaky way your brain sabotaged dreams is by thinking it knows WHEN things should happen.
Face it: your brain is one impatient little bugger!
It thinks it knows when you’re ready. When results should appear. When the timing’s right.
And it is always 100% W-R-O-N-G.
So relax. Breath. Enjoy life as it is in this moment. That way you show up TODAY as the bright, confident, arms-wide-open woman that you actually are deep-down inside. And that sends a ripple out into the Universe saying:
“I’m ready! Lay it on me, baby…”
THAT is when Source showd up with the goods.
So if something you desire hasn’t arrived at your doorstep yet: You’re not ready.
How do you know when you’re actually ready to have it all, and are aligned with the energy of what you want? When it’s lying right in your pretty little lap. Not a moment sooner.
So instead of stomping your foot (and actually repelling your desires), redirect that awesome energy of yours and BE the woman you long to be — a woman who magnetizes dreams like a bee to honey!
Show up as if you have it all (because you do).
Be grateful for what’s to come (as if it’s already here).
Thinking you know the divine timing of things makes you grumpy. Impatient. And stuck in your head. And all that does is jam up your flow, preventing the thing you want most from actually coming into reality.
So chill out… and DECIDE ALREADY!
(And then get out of the damn way.)
Don’t worry about “getting it right”. Don’t worry about making a mistake. Just get your car started, and hit the gas pedal already.
All roads lead to success. No exception.
But you have to program a destination before you’ll ever get there.
So decide.
Just do it.
Make up your mind.
And share YOUR big dreams in the comment section below:
Until next week – be unstoppable!
© 2012 Stephanie McWilliams LLC
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